Shouldn't pretend all is well

You should not pretend all is well everytime.
In addition, you should not pretend you understand everything.
If you do not understand something, you can ask somebody it honestly.
You need to accept some truth as itself even if the fact
may harm you or differ from your thinking.
Three books which were written by Mr. Oomae, Mr. S. Watanabe
and Mr. S. Ozawa and Mr. H. Hironaka say same thing like this.
I came across these sentenses three times in this month only.
It must be very important thing for me!
It must not be accident, it must be certainty.
Probably this is a kind of so called ''Serendipity''!!
Although it must be certainty we happen in with 'lucky',
we will not notice it if we do not have any conscious mind to
accept this kind of 'lucky'.
We have to prepare our attitude to accept 'lucky' in advance.